
A Story on how NOT to do business.
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Hi!
My name is Eduardo and this is the story on how I ruined my big chance of doing business with the great Naguib Sawiris.
Come and learn how NOT to act in business.
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The following story is one chapter of the book I wrote inspired by a business conference I was invited to give right after meeting engineer Naguib Sawiris.
I hope you like it!
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**I Said NO to Naguib Sawiris. Twice!**
In this section, Iâll share a couple of stories from my business ventures that taught me valuable lessons. Iâll use these lines to reaffirm the importance of nurturing ideas through imagination, emphasizing even more by inviting readers to take this practice to the point of obsession to generate business opportunities.
The first is very recent, from a few months ago in 2025, though it began a year earlier, in April 2024, when I acquired the usage rights to a registered brand with some interesting history in Mexico.
Itâs a brand once used in Mexico by an iconic global hospitality company that, for some reason, became available for purchase. I was the one who had the chance to acquire it, knowing that not only the company I mentioned but at least two other individuals in Mexico were (and are) trying to reclaim it and I bought it intending to negotiate with interested parties or develop it myself if the conditions werenât right.
So, in April 2024, I acquired it, and by September, it was duly registered. During this six months between the application and registration confirmation with the Mexican Institute of Industrial Property (IMPI) and World Intellectual Property Organization (WIPO), my curiosity led me to research the brandâs history beyond Mexico, and what happened was pleasantly surprising.
When I saw the brand in the United States, I was thrilled.
Then I found it in Hong Kong and my surprise grew.
By the time I reached India, it was clear that investing in the brand was a great decision.
But when I discovered what was happening with the brand in Egypt and its future plans, I simply went crazy.
I was completely captivated by the sophistication with which the brand is being developed in the Middle East, Africa, and beyond, with its nerve center in Egypt. So, I dove into everything related to its creators, to the point that my ideas of negotiating the brand in Mexico were nearly forgotten, and my interest in contacting its former owners vanished.
Focusing on the Egyptian alternative, I learned about a company called ORA Developers, dedicated to hospitality and housing developments with a not just modern but futuristic vision, transforming the real estate landscape in emerging nations, creating authentic dreams and taking them to reality.
Thanks to my curiosity about this company, I soon learned that the mastermind behind it all is an entrepreneur named Naguib Sawiris, considered a pioneer in Egyptâs communications development and a true celebrity in Africa and the Middle East and the more I researched, the more my amazement grew.
I reviewed every article, interview, and page about Naguib Sawiris and just as with the opening of Ele Por Ele and whenever I focus intensely on something that interests me, I studied the brand and the person so thoroughly that it became almost an obsession.
One of the first things I decided to learn, driven by this growing passion, was the Arabic language, to communicate in the original language of the brandâs developers. This was out of respect and as a perfect excuse to learn a new language and I gave myself a year to advance in Arabic while continuing to gather information about ORA Developers and Naguib Sawiris, waiting long enough to secure the brandâs official registration in my name to make it marketable again.
Of these three goals, I never anticipated how challenging Arabic would be. I still feel like a beginner despite the hours Iâve dedicated, but since itâs become a passion and a challenge, I know Iâll eventually communicate with Arabic speakers, especially now that I plan to launch this book.
Along the way, I learned that Naguib Sawiris has not only leveraged his business genius in Africa and the Middle East but also challenged powers like Italy and France. Iâm not exaggerating when I say these countries were shaken by what he achieved with his companies entering from outside.
Iâm talking about the need for these nations to decide, at the level of their economy ministries and legislatures, to ask him to sell his stakes in the companies he grew, essentially because they became dominant players in an industry as critical as telecommunications. Though not stated in news reports, I intuit that the real issue was that, as a non-European from an emerging nation, their pride couldnât tolerate his growth and access to such significant information. It was like an affront to their ego, ultimately resolved through diplomacy.
I must clarify that the above is just my perspective, not something Iâve seen in any opinion or article, and I take full responsibility for it.
And as if that werenât enough, I learned that Sawiris is an opinion leader who practices social an political activism daily, an activity I also enjoy, though Iâve neglected it lately. But Iâll return to it, as emerging nations always need critical voices to challenge decisions about their vast resources.
This is how I became a true admirer of Naguib Sawirisâs work, philosophy, and brand development approach and thanks to the patience I discussed earlier, I spent a full year working on my strategy.
Thus, in January 2025, I saw Naguib Sawiris as the keynote speaker at a communications industry summit in Dubai, where he once again shared his views and captivated the audience with his charisma. From that interview I remember a part where he said his success largely comes from making quick decisions without overthinking, as time can work against you.
After watching that interview, I felt uneasy for missing the event, so I thought, “I canât afford to let this information slip.â
From then on, I stayed highly alert to such events in the Middle East, which I had to follow personally, since being in Mexico meant I received no advertising about these conventions and thatâs how I learned that, at the end of February, heâd be a keynote speaker again at an investment summit in Abu Dhabi, less than three weeks away.
I immediately checked the eventâs website for tickets, but registration was not only closed, it was an invitation-only event, not open to the public.
So, there was no way to attend⦠in theory.
In theory, because I contacted the Mexican Embassy in the United Arabs Emirates, begging them to secure me tickets. But regardless of their response, I bought plane tickets and booked accommodation for myself and my wife, figuring Iâd manage if the embassy didnât come through.
I also consulted AI for ideas, and one was that many people attend such events hoping to beg for entry or even stay outside, just for a chance to contact key figures.
So, with plane tickets and hotel booked and the idea that Iâd stay outside if necessary, I was determined to contact Naguib Sawiris by any means. If I didnât find him at the Abu Dhabi conference, Iâd visit his office in Dubai the next day.
But that wasnât the case. Five days before the event, the embassy informed me that tickets would arrive via email, and I just needed to fill out the requested details.
I donât know how to explain it, but I never doubted Iâd be at the event. I was 100% certain, but you always need alternatives. No matter how sure your intuition is, you must have a Plan B, C, and D.
And february 26 arrived, the date of the Abu Dhabi conference.
My wife and I woke up early to arrive with time, as it was an hour-and-a-half drive from our hotel in Dubai. Weâd been there days early, thrilled because it was the perfect excuse to celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary in a city that captivates with its multiculturalism and business atmosphere. Our spirits were high.
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We left at 7:00 a.m. to register before 9:00 a.m., when the event started, as Sawirisâs conference was one of the first.
Of course!
The organization had him as an anchor for the opening, though not at the very start to allow time for registration, but early enough to ensure everyone was awake and excited.
We attended two fascinating prior presentations about the UAEâs success, with incredible speakers and the recurring theme of quick decision-making for organizational progress. The UAEâs economy minister spoke of laws changing overnight, sometimes in hours, when they realized they werenât working and could hinder progress. When they talk about speed, they mean it.
Finally, the third presentation arrived.
The atmosphere was charged; people eagerly awaited it. You could feel the admiration in the audience. The previous speakers were brilliant, articulate, and offered invaluable information, but this conference was not only brilliantâit was interactive. We laughed at Sawirisâs sarcastic anecdotes about extortions he faced due to emerging nationsâ policies, something those of us familiar with the whims of improvised leaders understand well.
Pure genius.
The audience gave a standing ovation at the end and while this was happening, I rushed to the exit to try to interact with him, but there were too many people crowded around, and he was accompanied by two people acting as some sort of bodyguards keeping everyone at a distance because otherwise it would have been a total chaos. You could see the disappointment on peopleâs faces who wouldnât get to greet him or take a photo. But with a year-long plan, I wasnât going to stand idly by. I followed him from a distance as he quickly headed to the exit. I thought he was leaving, with a car waiting to whisk him away, and I was already planning to visit his Dubai office the next day.
But no!
Instead, he was led to a lounge in the hotelâs reception, away from the conference bustle, where he sat to talk with someone for about ten minutes. You could see them, as it wasnât closed off; you couldâve even walked by and greeted them if you were bold enough. I stayed a few meters away, watching the bodyguards, who were nearby but distracted, no longer focused on the conversation happening in the hall.
Suddenly, Sawiris stood and walked toward the exit, right where Iâd been sitting, observing from afar. It was incredibleâI just stood, extended my hand, and introduced myself:
â “Good morning, Engineer Sawiris. My name is Eduardo, from Silversands Mexico. I want to congratulate you on your brilliant conferenceâ¦â
Before I could continue, with a surprised gesture, he asked:
+ “Silversands Mexico?â
â “Yes, thatâs right. Last year, I bought the rights to the brand that coincidentally matches yours, and I came here to ask you to bring your version of Silversands to Mexico.â
+ “Iâd love to!â
+ “Iâll need you to find a beachfront plot near an airport and please, I don´t want one of those saturated beaches you have in Mexico. I want a place where we can pave the way for a Silversands hotel and you send the information to the email on this card.â
Then, he handed me his business card.
I was in disbelief, thinking to myself, “This is what he means by quick decisions!â
It didnât take him a second!
+ “Do you have your business card?â
It took me some moments to react.
â “I, I, I⦠donât have one, but in this brochure you will find information about the business potential for the brand in Mexico and some beachfront plot options Iâve already researched. While some meet your specifications, Iâll look for alternatives.â
+ “Have you seen my Silversands hotel in Grenada?â
â “Not yet, but I plan to see your work firsthand, though I had to come find you first.â
+ “Great! Send me the information to the email, and Iâll respond at any moment. Weâll meet later to discuss contracts and fees.â
â “Perfect! Iâll gather more information and get to work as soon as I return to Mexico to have it ready per your requirements.â
My comment about returning to Mexico seemed to trigger something in him, and before we parted, as to clarify our brief talk, he said:
+ “Wait. You said you came all the way from Mexico just for this, right?â
â “Yes, yes, yes. My only goal in coming here was to meet you and discuss this in person.â
+ “Then letâs meet Friday at my office to discuss details.â
And there I was, with a proposal to meet and discuss business details with the living legend, as heâd been introduced at the conference. I donât know how many attendees wouldâve given anything for that opportunity, and I was getting it on a silver platter.
Or maybe I should say I was getting this opportunity on Silversands!
It was a year of research, studying Arabic, obsessing over every detail about him and his companies. A year of dreaming, pushing everything to the limit, using all my imagination to make things happen, and deciding that the best strategy was this trip with no certainty but immense confidence in everything Iâd done to tell Naguib Sawiris in person how much I wanted to bring his Silversands to Mexico.
All the hours of study, nights and days daydreaming, ideas generated to get hereâit all boiled down to this moment, and it turned out far better than I couldâve imagined.
And I said no!
He insisted.
I refused twice!
By the time I came back to my senses, I had neither the meeting nor the deal.
And thatâs exactly how you ruin the chance to do business with the Middle Eastâs business titan.

But you canât let Naguib Sawirs go just like that, right?
When I told him I had plans to see his work first hand, I really meant it, so thereâs still more to come on this story, because I went to Cairo and found him there.
But first, let me take you back to 2019 and a second story of dreams, obssesions and big opportunities worth sharing.
By then, Iâd long been dreaming of a plot of land, as having acquired the first three properties to found Ele Por Ele, with two doing very well, I began dreaming of a fourth property with specific characteristics: it had to be at least 40,000 m² and up to 200,000 m², rustic, on the cityâs outskirts but not too far to attract people to my go-kart track, and eventually eligible for approval by the Mexican Motorsport Federation for national and international competitions.
And it had to be very cheap.
As karting competitions went by, I fueled my dream more and more. I became obsessed with that plot, just as Iâd been with opening Ele Por Ele and later with the Sawiris deal. Nothing would stop me.
My desire and obsession were so strong that one day, browsing auction properties, I found exactly what I was looking for and on September 11, 2019, I was the highest bidder for an 80,000 m² flat plot in San Agustín Tlaxiaca, a small town 15 to 20 minutes from Pachuca, my hometown, at a bargain price, perfect for attracting motorsport enthusiasts.
Practically tailor-made, I could hardly find anything more ideal for the dream Iâd been nurturing for a year and a half. By January 2020, it was duly registered to Ele Por Ele and during the months between the purchase and registration, I had time to reconsider and realized that buying the plot was one thing, but building and maintaining a track as a lifelong business was another. I also considered that other racing categories might pull us away from karting. So, my plan shifted from building a go-kart track to selling the plot. And as I explained earlier about my passion for sports and watching my children grow in them, my entrepreneurial dreamerâs mind changed plans to build a gym on a plot I own, perfect for my daughters to develop their gymnastics skills under my vision and facilities. A gym requires fewer resources than a karting track, and in gymnastics, you can train in one place without needing to change every two or three years, as in motorsport.

In early 2020, Mexico enjoyed a good economic situation, with optimism and momentum. I quickly had interested buyers, but no one committed, as properties that size had relatively limited demand. Nevertheless, I knew the sale would come soon, enabling the gym and other pending projects. But on February 27, the government declared the COVID-19 emergency, which we thought would last a couple of weeks but turned into months and even years. In Mexican schools, in-person classes didnât resume until 2023, though most activities had restarted by mid-2021, with devastating consequences for businesses, many of which closed permanently after a year and a half of uncertainty.
For real estate, the COVID-19 emergency was especially brutal. The optimism turned into a scenario where many stopped investing as the lockdown extended, needing to plan resources at least medium-term. For many businesses, it became about survival, not profit.
But as always, I got obsessed and kept offering the property through every possible channel. With my mind fully focused on the sale, I thought I could close it in May for my sonâs birthday. When that didnât happen, I aimed for June for my wifeâs birthday, then mine, but nothing.
I mention this quickly in a few lines, but when I talk about setting these dates as goals, I mean the obsession I keep emphasizing. Itâs hard to explainâa state of being where you focus entirely on the goal. You think, dream, and nurture that single purpose, and deep down, you know itâll happen. Iâm a psychologist and I know this is the way the mind works, but other than psychology, this state of mind It can actually be considered a sort of esoteric mantra, I believe.
At some point, my wife mentioned the plot to a family acquaintance in real estate, who said he might have an interested buyer and he actually didnât take long to follow up.
On Tuesday, July 7, he called to meet at his house and present an offer for the land.
I remember receiving it with the same surreal feeling I had when Naguib Sawiris said he loved the idea of a Silversands Mexico. The offer was very good and in cash. In that moment, I felt like I was floating on cloudsâthe realization of a dream, an obsession fulfilled exactly as Iâd visualized.
And that wasnât even the best part! The best was when he told me something like:
“If you give me an answer by Thursday, weâd be signing the deed on Monday at this notary.â
Weâre talking about Monday, July 13, 2020. I know this exactly because that day we were celebrating Lia´s birthday, and itâs also the same date I registered the name Ele Por Ele with the Mexican Institute of Industrial Property. In fact, I can almost say my daughter and the company share the same birthday.
And there I was, receiving this fantastic offer in the middle of the pandemic, when everything was at a standstill and practically no one would spend money on real estate, on a date that couldnât have been more special.
Two years of dreaming about finding the land, imagining and reimagining the possibilities, searching for opportunities everywhere, talking to potential clients, not losing faith despite being in the midst of one of the most unexpected periods the world has ever faced, and as the cherry on top, picturing how Iâd arrive at my daughterâs birthday on July 13 with my pockets full thanks to this magnificent sale.
And I said no!
He insisted.
I refused twice!
Thatâs right!
Believe it or not, thatâs what happened.
Remember when I said in the introduction that youâd stumble over the same stone multiple times?
Well, consider these two anecdotes as proof of that statement taken to the absurd.
â âBut why did you say no?â
The students and attendees at the lecture asked me, their faces a mix of surprise, disbelief, and even indignation.
And the answer was simple.
â âBecause I was foolish.â
Ambition can lead you to make a mistake as big as turning down the local magnate for the sale of a highly coveted piece of land.
When I spoke with the sale promoter his words were more like:
+ You donât have to give me an answer right now. Think about it, and if you respond by Thursday, weâd be signing on Monday at this notary.
I told him Iâd think about it just to pretend, while in my mind the sale was already done.
BUT, I suppose it was on Wednesday when I got a call from someone Iâd heard about, saying he was investing in real estate at the time.
+ âGood afternoon, Eduardo, Iâm⦠and Iâm calling because I got information about the land you have for sale, and I want to tell you I have the following offer⦠Are you interested?â
The offer was 5% higher than the one Iâd received, with no middleman fee and also in cash, making it a 10% higher temptation.
â âYes, of course Iâm interested.â
+ âGreat, Iâd just ask that we go see the land in person on Monday and finalize the agreement.â
â âPerfect, see you on Monday.â
And the long-awaited Monday arrivedâmy companyâs birthday, my daughterâs birthdayâand with the expectation of closing the deal, I went to the appointment. We saw the land, he asked a few questions, made one or two comments, and concluded:
+ âWell, I like the land. Just let me verify the information on my own to ensure everything is in order, and weâll follow up to close the deal.â
Since I was 100% confident in what I was offering, I thought, âThe only difference is that the deed wonât be signed on July 13, but oh wellâ:
â âPerfect, Iâll wait to hear from you.â
A few days later, the promoter of the first offer called to say I hadnât followed up, which he found odd and feeling overly confident, with my big ego bursting off my chest I told him:
â âGuess what? I got another offer, and thatâs why I havenât reached out.â
+ âWell, our offer still stands for signing, but donât take too long, or my client might back out.â
Two weeks passed without a response from the second offer, and by the time I contacted the first promoter to say I was ready to proceed:
+ âGuess what? Itâs no longer available. My client had an unexpected issue and spent the funds allocated for the land purchase.â
And thatâs how you ruin a sale to the most important local entrepreneur, who, by the way, later made it very clear to me that he calls the shots in his area.

I ended up selling that land in 2023, not without first falling victim to a scam, and at a price 30% lower than the first offer I received, with post-pandemic inflation further reducing the value of the 2020 offer.
In December 2021, a âclientâ came along, and I signed a dream contract for the sale of the land, for an amount 50% higher than the first offer Iâd had, that I thought “It was worth the waitâ. The contract included a clause stating payments would begin at the end of January 2025, after fencing the land with cyclone mesh to secure possession, with both of us splitting the cost. I saw no issue with this because the city was full of advertisements featuring his companyâs logo, and not only that, he was a sponsor for a few months of the cityâs soccer team, which is somewhat famous and put Pachuca on the international map. Soccer fans in Msr may know it, as it has played in a Club World Cup against Al Ahly at some point. So, I contributed money, and he immediately started working on the land. But at some point, he told me a group of people stopped him, claiming the land belonged to the community.
Two days later, I got another call from my acquaintance, the promoter, saying they were repeating the 2020 offer, for immediate signing the next day if I wanted.
â âUnder other circumstances, I wouldnât repeat the mistake I made year and a half ago,- I told him – âbut I have a signed contract that doesnât allow it.â
This time, my second refusal happened because I was tied up. On one hand, a contract obligated me to wait at least six months for it to lapse if conditions werenât met; on the other, the local entrepreneur made it clear heâd buy the land when he decided, on his terms, and I failed to understand that at the time.
The dream contract turned out to be a scam. As I followed up on this client, signs of dishonesty emerged. Though I spoke with him by phone, the calls were only to stall, assuring me that if he didnât buy the land, heâd find a buyer and charge a commission, while already presenting himself as the new owner. So, I went to confront him at his business, where weâd signed the contract, only to find it had been transferred to someone else. Then I went to his house in an upper-middle-class neighborhood where weâd first discussed price and conditions, only to learn he was no longer there. It was as if heâd vanished overnight. To top it off, I received information about someone from Querétaro (a city 150 km from Pachuca) looking for him for fraud in a home sale, and they werenât the only oneâthere were at least two others in Querétaro seeking him.
They even contacted me:
+ âIf youâre in Pachuca, you can look for him at these addresses.â
â âI went to both places, and heâs not there anymore.â
Piecing it together, I realized the money he got from the Querétaro scams was used to relocate to Pachuca, flood the city with his advertising, and even appear as a sponsor on the professional soccer teamâs shorts to convince people of his companyâs importance.
In this case, I was deceived with the advance payment for fencing my land, which hurtâyes, for the money, but more for my pride and because it cost me a sale. Still, itâs nothing compared to the frauds in Querétaro, and I donât know if they ever caught the scammer.
In the end, I sold the land to the municipality at a relatively modest price, and today it hosts a sports complex.
The purchase decision fell to the person who made the first offer, no longer as a private individual but as a public representative, and honestly, he earned my full respect because he taught me a great lesson.
What comforts me from this experience is that the land ended up with the best possible client, serving a social purpose by fostering youth development.

Back to Naguib Sawirisâ¦
To wrap up the case with Engineer Naguib Sawiris, I pick up our conversation where I left off.
+ âLetâs meet Friday at my office to discuss details.â (It was Wednesday.)
â âFridayâs tough for me. Can it be tomorrow?â
+ âNo, I canât tomorrow. Iâll be busy all day.â
â âNo problem, whatever time you say, early or late, Iâll meet you wherever you want.â
+ âNo, really, I canât tomorrow, but weâll meet Friday.â
â âThe thing is, I have my return flight on Friday.â
+ âWhat timeâs your flight? If you want, we can meet very early so you have time.â
â âI have to be at the Abu Dhabi airport by 5:00 a.m. at the latest because my flightâs at 7:00 a.m.â
I think after my second refusal, he gave up on my foolishness and said:
+ âWell, you have my contact info. Send me the information, and Iâll reply at any moment.â
And thatâs how I let Naguib Sawiris slip away.
In my defense (if there´s any), this exchange happened in a span of two minutes at most. It was incredibly fast, and I was so stunned by his response that I couldnât think clearly.
It “caught me off guard,â as we say colloquially.
The next day, when I went to his office in Dubai to speak with his personal assistant and explain the encounter Iâd had with her boss the previous day, saying I was there to tell her Iâd changed my return flight and could meet him on Friday, her response was:
+ âSorry, Mr. Eduardo, but I just spoke with Mr. Sawiris, and his plans have changed. Heâs at the airport leaving the country right now and wonât be able to meet you this time.â
I returned to Mexico, gathered the information, sent it to the contacts he provided, and after a reasonable time with no yes or no, I decided to go find him again.
On May 4, I showed up at his office in Cairo and spoke by phone from the reception with his assistant.
â âGood morning. In February, I met with Engineer Naguib Sawiris to present an investment proposal for Mexico, and he asked me to send information, which Iâve done. Iâm here to reiterate my interest and see if he liked the proposals I sent.â
+ âVery well, Mr. Eduardo, give me a few minutes to reach out to him, and Iâll get back to you with a response.â
Ten minutes later, I spoke with the assistant again:
+ âMr. Eduardo, I spoke with my boss, and he says he greatly appreciates your interest, but for now, he has no plans to expand to Mexico. He also says heâd love to meet you, but his schedule is very busy these days. Please leave your contact details and let me know how long youâll be here, and heâll try to make time for a meeting if possible.â
I left my details, but the meeting never happened. From news and social media, I saw he was indeed extremely busy those days. Heâs someone operating on another level. He came and went from Egypt during the five days I was thereâno way he could fit me in.
But the incredible thing is that, despite his constant travel between countries, I did see him during my trip.
I was in Cairo those days because there was a concert at the Opera House where Engineer Sawiris had announced his presence, and Iâd already bought my ticket. But the night before, his social media showed him inaugurating his Madinat Al-Ward project in Iraq, and I thought, âHe probably wonât be here tomorrow.â
But he was, surrounded by press and friends, and I was just meters awayâmaybe as close as three meters from him.
I couldâve been bold and greeted him, maybe even spoken briefly, but heâd already given me an answer, and I felt the place and moment werenât right, so I just remained a concert attendee.
To put my plan during my Cairo visit in context, I arrived on Sunday and was set to return Thursday night, meaning I was in Cairo the entire workweek, confident that Naguib Sawiris would be in the country, so my plan couldnât fail, right?
Well, that Sunday, he appeared on the news at a charity event in the afternoon. Monday, he likely traveled early, as his social media showed him in Iraq that night, inaugurating his Madinat Al-Ward project. Tuesday morning, he was seen approving the projectâs offices and at that point I thought he might not be in Cairo after all, but the next day, Wednesday night, I saw him at the concert.
It never crossed my mind that someone could have such a schedule, but itâs Naguib Sawiris, and I had no idea something like that could happen.
Of course, I wonder what I couldâve done differently, and there are many things I considered but didnât act on, like notifying in advance of my Cairo visit and requesting a meeting. But I always wanted to add drama to my trips to find Naguib Sawiris, with an element of surprise.
There were also other actions that only occurred to me afterward, and I donât know how I didnât think of them earlier or even in the moment.
Obviously, saying yes immediately in Abu Dhabi to his proposal to meet was what shouldâve happened first, but since it didnât, hereâs something I canât understand why I didnât consider:
Why did I wait until the next day to go to his Dubai office to request a meeting when I couldâve gone right after the conference?
It was 11:00 a.m. when his conference endedâmaybe I wouldâve found him there if Iâd acted immediately.
Why was I so insistent that the meeting be on Thursday when I couldâve suggested meeting later that same day?
He said heâd be busy the next day, but he didnât mention being busy that same day.
Oh well.
The point is, I let the opportunity slip due to a lack of mental agility.

And so, I close this chapter with two anecdotes about how NOT to act in business. Though my doubts led me to waste a couple of great opportunities, I still consider them very valuable because they taught me lessons that will surely work in my favor in the future.
Here are some that come to mind:
1. **Business happens in the moment.**
When the opportunity comes, donât hesitate, donât let your ambition or indecision sabotage you. When I say business happens in the moment, I mean making quick decisions Naguib Sawiris-styleâin a secondâbecause if you think too long, the opportunity slips away.
2. **Push your mind to the limit.**
You must desire what you want with your whole mind and body, without fear of taking it to the point of obsession. Thatâs how opportunities ariseâitâs up to you to seize them.
3. **Take risks.**
When thereâs uncertainty, the only way to clear doubt is to act and let what it has to happen, happens.
4. **Alternatives.**
If the original plan fails, ensure you have multiple alternatives ready. If you still fail, the experience from failure will become maturity.
5. **Business trips donât have a return ticket.**
I suppose many people who travel to close deals know this, but it wasnât something I was aware of. Unfortunately, I didnât consider it in either of my two Middle East trips, but next time, Iâll make sure to book only a one-way ticket.
There are surely more lessons I could draw from these anecdotes, but these are the ones I find relevant for this story. Beyond continuing with my conclusions, I invite you to leave a message and share your experiences and opinions about what Iâve said in this stories, as thatâs how learning is enriched.
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